Dear Abby: I am currently married, but I’m looking to get an annulment or divorce. I have met a woman I am falling for. She knows my marital status and feels the same way about me.
I promised her my marriage would be over within eight months, but she feels that with my divorce, my wife should leave even if I move out and rent out my portion of the house. (My soon-to-be ex and I currently live on opposite sides of the house.) Do you agree?
— Making Changes in New York
Dear Making Changes: Whether or not I agree is irrelevant. The person who should be answering this question is the attorney who will represent you in the divorce. If you really plan to leave the marriage, make an appointment NOW to discuss it.
P.S. And, please, give yourself time after the divorce is final rather than tie the knot again on the rebound.
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