Dear Abby: I am a widower aged 72, and I’m wondering if it would be inappropriate to contact an old girlfriend from my college days. Yes, it has been more than 50 years, and she is married with grown children. I’m just wondering what your position is on this.
It would be nice to talk and catch up on our lives, etc. She lives 400 miles from where I do, but I would like to speak with her and talk about our lives. Since we both are in our early 70s, there’s obviously not a lot of time left.
— Catching Up In Georgia
Dear Catching Up: My position is don’t dip your hook in the water unless you plan to keep whatever you catch. Your old girlfriend is a married woman with a family. If your motive is to simply sing a chorus of “Auld Lang Syne,” go ahead and reach out. If you are lonely and there is ANYTHING more to it, then don’t.
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