Dear Annie: Some time ago, I went to dinner with two single senior ladies. I made the decision to not spend time with one of them again since I was very uncomfortable with her. She drove that night and was possibly the worst driver I’ve ever seen. Very scary! She was not drinking but was possibly on meds.
Also, the restaurant was packed, and she treated the waitress rudely and was very demanding. My choice was to not socialize with her again, though we live in the same area and have occasion to speak. The other day, she put me on the spot and said she wants to know why I don’t like her. I avoided answering, but I think this will happen again. What do I say? Simply that we are not a good fit? — Friend Problem
Dear Friend Problem: Why waste an opportunity to be honest? Tell her that her reckless driving scared you and her bad manners toward the waitress made you uncomfortable. She will either leave you alone or change her ways — a win-win regardless.
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