Dear Annie: My new boyfriend told me he’s polyamorous, and I am not. He often tells me he wants me plus another woman in order to satisfy his sexual needs. I do love him, but this is something I’ve never encountered. I’m willing to try different things, but I’m not sure if this is something I’m mentally ready to do. I want to stay with him, but I’m not sure if I can handle the whole situation. — Lost and Confused
Dear Lost: Compromise in a romantic relationship is one thing, but this falls firmly into deal-breaker territory. Have an open, honest conversation with your boyfriend about your boundaries and the fact that you may never be ready or able to give him something polyamorous — which is 100% OK. If you can’t land on something that works for you both, it’s probably time to part ways. You both deserve to be in relationships that make you feel supported, seen and safe.
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