DEAR MISS MANNERS: My son and his fiancee are insisting that my other son, as a groomsman, shave his mustache. They do not like the way it looks.
Is this out of line? My groomsman son is highly offended.
GENTLE READER: Of course he is. It is highly offensive to be told that you are not acceptable as you are.
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