DEAR MISS MANNERS: I was given a very beautiful and expensive gift, but I have no use for it and it is not my style. I do, however, have a friend whom I know would love it because she has the same expensive taste. Would it be considered rude if I regifted it to this friend? Both friends are in my inner circle and know each other. I wouldn’t want to hurt the original giver’s feelings, as she is probably the kindest soul I know. I’ve kept everything else she has given me, but this is just not something I want. I’d hate for it to go to waste when I know somebody else would love it. Is there any proper etiquette on regifting?
GENTLE READER: The etiquette on regifting is not to get caught. The likelihood in this case is too great, and not, in Miss Manners’ opinion, worth the risk. She suggests you find another worthy recipient — preferably someone who lives in another state or country.
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